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Jude Sandvall: The Divorced Dadvocate

Hi, I’m Jude Sandvall—a divorced dad of three and the founder of The Divorced Dadvocate.

If you’re here, chances are your divorce has been tough. I get it. Mine was, too. I faced infidelity, substance abuse, financial struggles, alienation, the court system, co-parenting hurdles, dating with kids—you name it. It was chaotic, uncertain, and unbelievably stressful.

I started The Divorced Dadvocate to make sure other dads don’t have to go through it alone. This site is packed with resources to help you navigate divorce and rebuild your life. If you can’t find what you need, reach out—I want to hear from you.

And if you’re ready for deeper support, join The Divorced Dadvocate Membership Community. Inside, you’ll get access to hundreds of members-only blogs and podcasts, live group meetings, free workshops and courses, private discussion groups, and much more.

http://thedivorceddadvocate.com

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Ben Schooley

Ben Schooley is the Founder and CEO of Pro Se Coach, the only self-representation coach in Texas. With extensive personal experience navigating family law cases without a lawyer, he has empowered hundreds of parents across the state to confidently handle court proceedings on their own.


Based in Central Texas, Ben helps clients strategize legal filings, understand procedural options, and maintain emotional resilience—even in the most challenging cases. While he is not an attorney and does not give legal advice, his coaching provides structured guidance, editable templates, and one-on-one support to improve self-represented litigants’ chances of success.


A vocal advocate for family law reform, Schooley is committed to integrity, self-respect, and outcomes that serve parents and children—not the system.

https://prosecoachtx.com/

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Charlie McCready

Charlie McCready is an expert coach helping parents and children affected by the complex pathology of parental alienation. He has lived through alienation of his own children, having gone through periods of strained contact and no contact before successfully reuniting, rebuilding those precious loving relationships.


Charlie has over twenty years of experience of parental alienation and brings practical knowledge gained from working with a wide range of parents and their collective experiences of alienation.

https://charliemccready.com/about-charlie/

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David Pisarra

David Pisarra, Esq. is a dedicated men's family law advocate, author, and speaker with over two decades of experience helping men navigate divorce, custody, and family law challenges.


Drawing from his own personal journey, David specializes in supporting men through difficult legal and emotional transitions, bringing empathy and insight to every case. He guides clients toward fair outcomes by combining legal expertise with a strength‑based approach. Whether it’s negotiating custody arrangements or handling asset division, David helps men reclaim confidence, protect their rights, and build a path forward that balances parental responsibility, financial stability, and emotional well‑being.

https://mensfamilylaw.com/

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Joe Dillon

Joe Dillon, MBA is the Founder and Lead Mediator at Equitable Mediation Services. With over 28 years of mediation experience—17 of those focused on divorce—Joe combines financial expertise with a compassionate approach to help couples reach fair, future‑focused agreements.


A child of a contentious divorce himself, Joe is committed to helping families avoid the pain and conflict he witnessed growing up. Since founding Equitable Mediation in 2008, his philosophy has been simple: focus on solutions, not battles, and create space for healthier co‑parenting and financial stability after divorce.

https://www.equitablemediation.com/

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Karla Kyte

Karla Kyte, is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional who believes deeply in the power of homeownership.


After going through her own divorce, Karla realized that staying in her home was only possible because of her mortgage lending expertise and careful planning. That experience sparked her mission: to help others navigate the financial and emotional challenges of divorce without losing the roof over their heads.
Karla founded My Divorce Mortgage Planning to guide divorcing couples through one of life’s toughest transitions. With years of experience in residential mortgage lending, she works to ensure separation agreements are written smartly — properly addressing support payments, debt obligations, and every detail that impacts homeownership.


She also educates attorneys, Realtors, and collaborates with other experts nationwide, making her a true leader in the field of divorce mortgage planning.

https://mydivorcemortgageplanning.com/#home

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Ken Curry

Ken Curry, MA, LMFT is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and founder of Solid Man, specializing in men’s mental health, masculinity, and relational strength. Based in Colorado, Ken brings over a decade of experience helping men reclaim integrity, confidence, and purpose through individual therapy and men’s groups.

A devoted father, husband, and grandfather, Ken believes masculinity is inherently good and that men can live with freedom, presence, and strength. Through his “Solid Man Process,” he helps men overcome shame, anxiety, addiction, relationship struggles, and anger.

Ken’s approach is practical, relational, and strength-based—guiding men toward lives of humble confidence, healthy influence, and emotional resilience.

https://www.solidman.com/

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Kirk M. Samuels

Kirk is a published author of For Your Eyes Only: The Inside Scoop About Men, Porn, and Marriage & author and curator of Seven Secrets of Modern Dating: The HE SAID, SHE SAID Guide for Getting from Single to Spouse. Seven Secrets of Modern Dating is an Amazon #1 Best-Seller in seven categories! He has been teaching and coaching men and women since 2014. Kirk was an award-winning speaker in Toastmasters Int’l. As a radio personality, he has been a part of numerous podcasts, the Corner Café Radio, and The Real Traci Rock Show. Kirk is also on the Advisory Council for BeMen and board of Step Seven Ministries.

https://madmenradio.com/

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Ron Platt

Ron Platt is a lifelong entrepreneur who launched his first venture at 18. After graduating from Florida State University, he dove into the insurance industry, gravitating toward product development, especially in niche markets most underwriters avoided.

It was during this time that the idea for the NASDF and its insurance arm, Support Insured, first took shape. Though the concept began decades ago, it took 30 years to bring it to life.
For the past 23 years, Ron has built a successful career in real estate, guiding homebuyers and sellers, helping investors grow their returns, and advising developers from concept to design.

But his true passion lies in NASDF and its mission: advocating for foster care reform and breaking cycles of intergenerational poverty. Together with co-founder Joy Read, he launched NASDF and recently, they introduced Support Insured, the first and only divorce insurance product on the market.

https://www.nasdf.org/blog

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Sondra M. Douglas

Compassionate and resourceful, Sondra Douglas is a fierce advocate for her clients both in and out of the courtroom. Her passion for the law, whether she is representing a client with a family law issue or one who has suffered injury or loss as a result of a car accident, gives her the drive to dig deep looking at all angles of a case to creatively solve her clients’ needs. Sondra approaches the practice of law in a very practical manner, but with an intuitive understanding of her client’s particular needs.

https://steinsperling.com/attorneys/douglas-sondra/

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Tammy Guns

Tammy Guns is a highly accomplished professional with a unique blend of expertise in auditing, business development, divorce mediation, asset tracing, and expert witness testimony. She has served on two Boards of Directors, authored two award-winning books, and holds four college degrees—including two master’s—with a strong foundation in accounting. A graduate of the University of Michigan and the University of Wisconsin, Tammy is also an engaging international keynote speaker. Her career highlights include delivering a TEDx talk in Dallas, Texas, and chairing a global conference in Rome, Italy.

https://divorceresourcecentre.com/

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Will Black

Will Black is the Chief Giving Officer and Founder of Sharing The Credit, a platform that helps businesses redirect part of their credit card fees into donations—without raising costs. With deep experience in merchant services and philanthropy, he champions a model where companies save money while fueling causes they care about.


Under his leadership, Sharing The Credit turns routine transactions into sustainable funding for nonprofits, creating a win‑win for businesses and communities.


An international bestselling author and charitable funding strategist, Black blends entrepreneurial insight with social impact, guiding businesses to give seamlessly.

https://sharingthecredit.com/

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